I believe everyone searches for love daily. People say you
shouldn’t look for love. Love will eventually find you, but the pursuit for
love, I believe, might be deeply implanted into our souls. Americans truly
remain incomplete until they find their best friend for life.
While in Las Vegas this past weekend, I experienced the joy
of my best friend marrying her best friend and I felt overwhelmed by a million
emotions. Weddings bring people and families together for an amazing time where
love between to people is celebrated. All cultures share the dream for love and
happiness.
I would be lying if one of the emotions I felt might be
sadness, as a single almost 30-something female, weddings depress my life just
a tad. Inside I wished that one day I would be as happy as my two friends
appeared this past weekend. Just happy to say those two words…I do. As your
friends slowly marry off, you start realizing how much you want the same thing
out of life. To find someone that makes you so happy that you would actually commit
to him or her for the rest of your life.
I remain single, because for the past 10-15 years my life in
love falls into the epic fail category. Either I love them or they don’t love
me. They love me and I don’t love them. Oh, you like me, what would your
girlfriend think about this situation? The best might be mutual love between
someone that ends and you wonder why you didn’t leave the unhealthy situation
sooner, because you feel like you wasted time and lost out on possible opportunities
for true love. Not to mention multiple times of dating random people that end
with no love at all…fail.
Weddings make single people wonder when their number for
love will be called out. The dancing, drinking and celebration of love leaves a
single person wishing they could exit the epic fail building and fall madly in
love…just sayin’.
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